Tuesday, 9 August 2005

My day so far

Today ...


1- What I hoped for didn't happen :} not sad but a bit disappointed, never the less :D tomorrow is a new day with a bright new sun shine!

2- At the beauty saloon today I saw little kids being over hairdressed. Over make'd up! & over dressed. I thought maybe its a weeding? It appeared to be a party :} still I hated the fact that the kids innocence was violated by the grown ups way of making them selves look pretty! (although I doubt it). I even think that a lipstick/blush/eyeshadow is UGLY on kids! kids in general am not talking about ads .. To add more spices to the story! The party is for one of the girls :} so I smiled & thought "ooooH how cute! A young girl wanting to look like old girls ;p" .. It turned out to be a party for her wearing a "7ijab" & she is 7 years old???????????

Am not in the mood to open up a big discussion about "sunna" & "she3a" simply because this is a free space to chill! .. Still I don't get it! Why should it just BE!!!! Why at age 7??? Why not like what's in the holly Qura'an? WHY since we are in Kuwait! Should she be forced while legally she has the right to choose? .. It just didn't make sense to me. That made me sad!

3- Long day ahead its already after 7! Better go :} ,, have a good evening all

16 comments:

Puppylove said...

Hey... i know how u feel, I'm shee3iya, i'm proud of who i am, but i know how u feel cuz thats what i feel, i just wore my hijab 2 yrs back, cuz everybody (the old women) in the family started 2 tell me that its time & i was the only one not wearing it..& they were telling me that men nowadays want a mohajiba girl..(YEAH RIGHT!) not all of them....i know i wore it cuz they've been nagging me 4 ages, but im not that "AH!" about it.
BTW my family r not religious, the women in our family always like 2 dress up & put make up, its just that we were raised like that...to wear the hijab, & mine is not perfect, my dad's eldest aunt always nags me 2 put it on properly...& cuz i was in the states with my family (dad,mom & bros) we're the "cool" ones in the family & always talk english together...thats why i refused 2 wear it at a young age.
U know what..? i had this subject on my mind 2day & was thinkin of posting it soon...& other related subjects...take care...

BloBoz said...

Child Abusing :( .

Broke said...

I really hate it when I see really young girls covered in that age ..:/


That's really unfair .. They just don't know what is it .. All they know is that they have to put a piecce of cloth on thier heads ..

That's why we have this huge number of met7ajbat who look like clowns with their colthes and make up .. Most of them were obliged 2 wear it since they were kids .

3baid said...

Isn't the 7jab obliged as soon as you hit puberty? I also heard somewhere that women no longer need to wear it when they reach menopause. *shrug*

Q80-Chill Girl said...

Pink Bubblegum/Puppylove

Hi dear :} am glad you took the time to comment here its a pleasure. About what you said it held almost ALL of the feelings I felt for those girls & its not only about she3a some sunna also do it but at age 7 its a she3a thing, the core of this is not to discuss whos right & whos wrong sunna or she3a I respect them both & most of my dearest friends are she3a either 3yam or 7saweya & all my life I lived among them as Kuwaitis not as any thing else :> & we all respect each other no matter what & how the way we may differ. I dont wish to discuss the details of the two mathaheb because its a deeeeep discussion that I dont wish to even think of :) am not up to it!

Still I had to express my un happyness twards this, am sorry for every girl that has to go throught this.

Again this is the problem its becomming a THING to wear not a believe to follow hence not a lot will keep it in the way its supposed to ,, hence حجاب بو ريش & a lot of thing we see on a dailly basis!

All in all met7ajba or not you can live your life :) & be something you like to be

Again i thank you for your valuwable feedback :} have a ncie day dear

Q80-Chill Girl said...

Bloooooooooo

yeah, thats why it made me sad

Q80-Chill Girl said...

Brok

Me too it makes me sad, & in a way makes what SOME met7jbat do a bit explainable!

Q80-Chill Girl said...

3baid

some she3a believe that at age 7 a girl is obliged to wear 7ijab. As for the women leaving hijab is false :) its a thing she should stick to when she wears.. or simply dont wear it :} this is speaking from a Kuwaiti point of view not a religious one (about not wearing it period)

Puppylove said...

Chill:
I totally agree 2 everything u said, & I have suuna friends I adore so much...
But's its true that its more of a shee3a thingy...
And el-hamed Allah, I'm still living my life & still the same person.....

Take care sweetie...

Ms.Baker said...

I agree with you, it is very odd to see a young girl of 7 wearing the hijab. I just think it's wrong, she is too young to know what she is doing. 7araam 3ala ahelha.

No offense inended to anyone's beliefs, this is just my personal view.

Also, I hate when young girls dress up to look like much older women. I am a fully grown woman, and some of these younger girls -teenage or in their very early 20's - look so much older than me. Its sad.

NooNi said...

Hi
this is my first comment since i started this blog thingy ,, anyways

about what you wrote yeah in my opinion they don't have to let the girls out the hijab in this age cuz they are kidz n they don't know what r they doin they are obaying thair MOM n dad its 7aram they are klinig the bar2a in thos kids ...

Q80-Chill Girl said...

Pink Bubblegum/Puppylove

This is where you become distinct, where you rise above every thing & be something :}. Somethings in life are just "be!" or "done!" at that stage life should not end :) good fro you girl

Q80-Chill Girl said...

MsBakerQ8

you got it exactly! other than the 1st point u mentioned there are some young girls who LIKE to look old? I truelly question that, LEISH? & whats even more questionable why Da'Hell their parents ey6aw3onhum? ,, I get so sad & angry to see little girls kill their childhood with the parents blessing!

Q80-Chill Girl said...

NooNi

Hello there :} thank you for giving me the pleasure to be the 1st blog you comment on :) go girl & blog ur world :}

So far am soo happy that all got my point right on the dot no one offered any external understandings of what I wrote :> thank you all

Ms.Baker said...

Dear Chillgirl,

Glad you liked the new DW! Misguided has put a lot of effort into its design, and we both are really enjoying the new DW very much.

I also wanted to tell you that it is too bad about the thing you were waiting for - that it did not happen - but, Allah iyeeblich ille fee khair 7aggich inshallah, oo i3awthich! God can open a window for you even though it seems he closed the door!

Q80-Chill Girl said...

MsB

hi there :}

Am loving the new DW :D I feel like that I missed a lot & feel guilty too I havent been connetcing as much with the blogs I like :( BUT am catching up :D:D bit by bit Insha2 Allah I will be on track

thank you so much dear for your nice wishes :** oO I never close my eyes out from God's blessings :) might not have this one but will have more on later :} as long as I keep on being me & fight for it ;p